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	<title>Comments on: More on the Uh and Ah Dilemma</title>
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		<title>By: Pivotal Public Speaking &#187; Uns and Ahs</title>
		<link>http://wiredpresentations.com/2009/05/30/more-on-the-uh-and-ah-dilemna/comment-page-1/#comment-87</link>
		<dc:creator>Pivotal Public Speaking &#187; Uns and Ahs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 22:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] If you want to perfect your public speaking skills then you have to treat ums and ahs the same way that my friend treats his occasional miss. &gt;&gt;&gt; [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
		<link>http://wiredpresentations.com/2009/05/30/more-on-the-uh-and-ah-dilemna/comment-page-1/#comment-35</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 12:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Olivia,

Thanks for the comment.

A few ahs and ums are not going to ruin many presentations. That being said, it is still worthwhile to strive for perfection. If my friend always strives to hit the X ring (bullseye) and misses he will likely hit the 10 ring. That&#039;s still a great shot and he is still in the game. The minute he starts accepting just hitting the 10 ring then a miss is in the 9 and he starts losing.

Professional speakers and trainers are guilty of this as well. In fact, there are many professional speakers and public speaking gurus who just aren&#039;t that good at speaking. Ditto trainers.

Whether or not anyone agrees with what I am saying here is up to them. They must decide for themselves how good they want to be. I am just saying that ahs and ums should not be accepted regardless of the number because they are probably being caused by a more pressing problem: lack of effective pausing, a poorly thought out train of thought or lack of eye contact.

That being said, one or two ahs or ums isn&#039;t going to cause a lot of trouble. Accepting them, on the other hand, probably will.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Olivia,</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment.</p>
<p>A few ahs and ums are not going to ruin many presentations. That being said, it is still worthwhile to strive for perfection. If my friend always strives to hit the X ring (bullseye) and misses he will likely hit the 10 ring. That&#8217;s still a great shot and he is still in the game. The minute he starts accepting just hitting the 10 ring then a miss is in the 9 and he starts losing.</p>
<p>Professional speakers and trainers are guilty of this as well. In fact, there are many professional speakers and public speaking gurus who just aren&#8217;t that good at speaking. Ditto trainers.</p>
<p>Whether or not anyone agrees with what I am saying here is up to them. They must decide for themselves how good they want to be. I am just saying that ahs and ums should not be accepted regardless of the number because they are probably being caused by a more pressing problem: lack of effective pausing, a poorly thought out train of thought or lack of eye contact.</p>
<p>That being said, one or two ahs or ums isn&#8217;t going to cause a lot of trouble. Accepting them, on the other hand, probably will.</p>
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		<title>By: Olivia Mitchell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Olivia Mitchell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 10:17:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jeff

I think there&#039;s also a difference between somebody who presents just every so often as part of their job, and a professional speaker (or trainer). I think if you just present occasionally you don&#039;t need to eliminate every um or ah (though I agree that if it is distracting to more than a few people in your audience then you do need to do something about it). However, if you&#039;re a professional speaker of some kind, just like being a world class rifle shooter, you should be working on continuously improving every part of your speech - including eradicating ums and ahs! Olivia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jeff</p>
<p>I think there&#8217;s also a difference between somebody who presents just every so often as part of their job, and a professional speaker (or trainer). I think if you just present occasionally you don&#8217;t need to eliminate every um or ah (though I agree that if it is distracting to more than a few people in your audience then you do need to do something about it). However, if you&#8217;re a professional speaker of some kind, just like being a world class rifle shooter, you should be working on continuously improving every part of your speech &#8211; including eradicating ums and ahs! Olivia</p>
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